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20 26 year old dating

You say you can’t build up enough energy to date, but the message that is really communicated is that you feel too much like a “dork” to date.You’re worried that the women you would date would think you are a loser.

I think that I have three problems: #1 – I cannot build up enough energy to go out and meet women. I am not shy in normal social situations, but just going up to a woman and talking to her is not a skill of mine. I am much more comfortable not expressing intimacy to anyone. I would consider myself over 10 years “behind the curve” and I really feel like a loser. I tend to be a “glass is half empty” type of person.

If I go out with someone my own age, I am going to be light-years behind in experience. When you say that you are a nice guy, I wonder if what you mean is that you are a passive guy. I note that you’ve been on dates but have bailed out of the process after the second date, perhaps because you “fear intimacy” as it were (the second date being the beginning of the period when the formation of a relationship becomes a possibility).

His ex, the mother of the 2 boys, is extremely jealous and is constantly fighting with him over the phone. But if he loves you and shows that and has no problems with you being with his children, I guess it is ok. What they have between them (the kids) is their business.

I want to know what I should expect out of the relationship with someone who has kids and shares custody with his ex, and how I should handle the situation. You just have to be careful with the ex so she doesn't try to influenciate your relationship.

You also are saying here that you don’t know how to act around women.

Really – you act around them like you would if you weren’t trying to get them into bed, except that you act just a little nicer, and you take them to a nicer place.

How younger men tend to define love as is more external such as resources, gaining stability, and dealing with things that may jeopardize commitments.

It's understandable especially for men who were not born into the new Nobility Class of this era's economic structure.

From the style of outfit that makes her feel sexy, to her favorite place to find quiet & peace, to that sigh she makes when looking at pictures of places she wants to visit but would never mention to you. You're also assuming that she knows herself well enough to tell you what she wants.

This is not often true so expecting her to tell you these things is not a good thing to rely upon.

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