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Low self esteem while dating a much younger man

This longing may have formed from falling in love with the fantasy of father.

You can’t believe you could be truly loved and so you test your partner every chance you get so that he can demonstrate his value (which you don’t believe or trust anyway).

You may even sabotage the relationship because you know your partner will inevitably leave anyway.

Sure, sex will always be fun, but when you’re not really connecting, you’re not really making love.

Thankfully, your low self-esteem is not something that is out of your control.

Instead of being in the moment with your partner, you’re wondering what’s going through their head.

Because you’re always worried about what they’re thinking, you can’t really be present in the bedroom.

As a result, you try to put on a happy face when you’re not really happy and you go and do things that you don’t really want to do.

And because your spouse wants to, you go along and pretend that you’re happy.

If you can’t believe you’re good enough, how can you believe a loving partner could choose you?

Low self-esteem can make you test or sabotage relationships that have potential, or settle for relationships in which you’re treated in a way that matches your beliefs about yourself.

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